Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Halloween Contest Update

Quick update on the Halloween Contest, we just got the first submission. And you should all submit, because, well, SCARY! and we don't want to just end up with the scary by default. So please? save me from the scary?

Monday, October 11, 2010

Punishments, Rewards, and Points

So Becky and I decided to make this official, and I'm just going to copy what was before in an old post:

If you think I did very well in the dare, and want to reward me, post a comment with a small reward below. If I did badly, post a punishment. Good or bad means beyond the expectations. So if I do something better than expected, beyond the requirements, or worse than expected, like cheat or wimp out half way through or something. It should be something small and simple, not a whole new dare or something, basically something that can be done in a few moments (masturbating, spanking) or something that makes the next dare slightly easier or harder (allowed to re-roll one dice, can't wear a bra, whatever). Entirely up to you, but we really like the interactive parts of this.

Also: We're going to toss in a new game for the dare-givers. We're going to award points to people when we pick their dares. Probably one, maybe we'll do two if its especially awesome or fits a specific request. You can then cash in your points. We're thinking something like one point lets you give a rule for a one week duration, or maybe the ability to change one thing about a dare before it comes in or something. If you have requests for what points get, let us know, we'll update this when we make the final decision.

UPDATE:
We're giving out points for people whose dares we take, who win contests, or who earn them some other way

1 point: you can tweak any dare we're going to do (when we announce that its coming up) by changing the odds. Things like changing the dice rules with "add one to your roll" or "you can't roll a three" or something like "flip a coin, if its heads, you have to do 15 minutes instead of 10" or "tails means no shoes" or whatever. Has to be a chance, not a fixed thing.

2 points: you can change something fixed, but still related to the dare. Its basically the step up of 1 point, rather than changing the odds, you can force the odds. You can change aspects of the dare "the dare said pants, but you get a skirt" or something.

3 points: You get to add something to the dare, whatever you want. It can be related, or not, up to you.

Dare Done: Bondage Dice Dare

So we decided to go ahead with it, rush order. We decided before rolling, no locked door. Mostly Becky said no locked door and I figured, if the lights are off, anyone who does wander in against the odds might not notice as easily.

We rolled a 2, 3, 6. The six kind of ruined the two, which was a lucky draw at first, but unless the last roll was a 1, don't I wish, the first roll was going to get ruined anyway, so I wasn't too surprised.

The standing position was a little disappointing, since I didn't want to stand up the whole time. Also, it was probably the hardest to explain away if someone did walk in. Fully clothed would've made it easier, since I could just say "hey, someone was pulling a prank, untie me!" this is more like, "hey, I'm a kinky slut, um... untie me?" but I was pretty certain that nobody would come in. Not that that shut up the fear but that was kind of part of the excitement.

So setup wasn't too bad. There was the "aw crap" moment after the dice but it wasn't too long. The only real panic was the clips. Not something I do often. And I wasn't looking forward to them. So I ended up standing in my room naked while Becky was holding the rope waiting for me feeling like an idiot while I tried to figure out a way to chicken out of the whole thing. Two important things to take away from this: don't try a new thing on your first dare back, and pick terrible mean dares for Becky.

After I put them on I was in very much a hurry to get Becky to tie me up and leave to start the timer. Sooner gone, sooner back, sooner no more ouchies. It wasn't quite what I was expecting really. It didn't hurt as much as I thought, but they were just kind of constantly there drawing my focus. I wasn't paying as much attention as I thought when Becky was tying me up.

The really terrible part was when Becky went to leave. I'm standing naked, tied, and in pain in the middle of my room and she has to open the door. I was like, oh shit. Please nobody be in the hall. Nobody was, but damn when that door is open your heart will race.

So Becky didn't come back for about 40 minutes. I couldn't see a clock, that was part of the dare, and even if I could, I didn't know when she'd be coming back anyway. Even with the lights off, It was still scary, and the clipss were still getting to me. They started to ache after a while, and with the lights off there wasn't a whole lot else to focus on. Its hard to explain really, but when you're tied up in your room focusing on the sensations in your privates, its definitely a bit of a head game. Oh, until you hear someone in the hall and then you get completely woken up from whatever you're thinking about for a little panic break. One time someone knocked on a door and I just about died, but it was one of the doors next door.

Also, standing up got annoying, especially with my ankles tied. So I eventually decided to kneel. Technically maybe against the rules, so if you want throw up a punishment in the comments and all (going to make that official after this post). Kneeling wasn't so bad, although it was weird moving with the clips, but I realized getting up would be a lot harder, so I just stayed kneeling until Becky got back. She thought it was too funny and honestly, its hard to be defensive when you're tied naked and clothespinned, and kneeling. Which she left me like for a couple minutes.

By the way, I got a little lost since I left off going chronologically and all, but when Becky opened the door I was so surprised I screamed a little. Which made her jump. And then she turned on the light and laughed at me for a bit then eventually untied me and let me pull the clips off. Which hurt all over again, and where they were still hurts a little.

Dare Upcoming: Bondage Dice Dare

I think we decided against doing the "dare upcoming posts" but I wanted to commit myself to this so I wouldn't back out. I wanted to get a new dare up soon before I run out of steam on getting back into the blogging.

So this is a dice dare that was sent to me, that I wasn't sure of at first, but I wanted to try bondage, and this requires less setup than some of the other dares I've received so I can squeeze it in this afternoon or tonight, although we will need to go shopping to pick some supplies up.

The dare:

Roll 1 – What to wear

  1. Fully dressed
  2. Bra and pants
  3. Topless
  4. Bottomless
  5. Underwear only
  6. Nude

This defines the most that you can wear. You may opt for less (and may have to opt for less to comply with the third roll)

Roll 2 – Position (“tie” yourself as best you can in the position described; remember to have a way out in case of emergency)

  1. Spread-eagle, face up on bed (don’t cover up)
  2. Sitting in a chair, facing the door, wrists and ankles secured to the chair.
  3. Standing up, facing the door, ankles tied together, arms behind your back with your hands grasping your elbows (or forearms at least). (You probably won’t be able to do anything about restraining your arms without gear, but hold the position as if you were.)
  4. Lying on your back, knees bent, hands holding your ankles,
  5. Sitting on your bed, bending forward, hands holding ankles
  6. Lying on the floor, spread-eagled.

Roll 3 – What gets clipped? (If you have to remove clothes to comply with this roll, you must do so)

  1. No clips
  2. One clip each nipple
  3. Two clips per nipple
  4. One clip each side, um, “down there”
  5. Two clips each side “down there”
  6. One clip per nipple and one clip each side “down there”

Depending on your comfort / security, you could consider leaving your door unlocked during your session. Let you mind wonder about who might walk in and see you “helpless”. Your dare is simply to place yourself in a semi-restrained, vulnerable position in your room, when Becky is out for 15-30 minutes. Ideally, Becky should know in advance that this will happen sometime, but not exactly when. You should have a rough idea of when Becky should return, but not exactly.


We had to make a couple changes to this, since Becky will need to be around to tie me up, so she'll know exactly when its happening. We're keeping the bit about I won't know when she's coming back, and being more flexible on how long she's gone to compensate. We're not sure about leaving the door unlocked. I'm not sure, at least, Becky thinks it would be hilarious. I think it would be terrifying, but I kind of want to. (side note: these are the kinds of dares why I don't want to give out any information that would identify me. If someone at school knew it was me and my door would be unlocked...)


We were going to roll dice now, but we decided to ask a quick question first. Do I have to decide on locking unlocking the door before I roll, or can I wait and see what I get first? Or, can I have some kind of reward for leaving it unlocked? maybe the option to tone down one of the rolls? Let us know, especially if there is a reward (not a punishment, I know what you're thinking, and you know who you are) in the comments.


Halloween Costume Contest

Okay, so Becky and I are both going to partake in this one. We're basing it off the date outfit contest from before. Basically, email me with a Halloween costume idea and a dare for Halloween. We'll probably be going to both Halloween parties with friends and the school's Halloween dance. Dares can be for either or all. If I pick your costume for Becky, or she picks it for me, then your dare, regardless of what it is (within limits/reason) is accepted.

Doesn't matter what the dare is, it will not enter into the decision making, it should be associated, something to do at Halloween or when in costume. Costume ideas may be sent for one of us specifically, for either non-specifically, or for both of us together (include a dare for both or each in this case).

We'll post the winners probably sometime next week, we need time to actually get the costumes, so it won't last until Halloween. Plus, we want to have the costume winners up so that others can post Halloween dares as well.

Friday, October 8, 2010

We're back!

Okay, so we finally did decide to restart this. Here's the plan:

We've still got the "how to dare pages up" and we may need to edit those, we'll see. But we're going to do things just like before, email us dares, (we may give Becky her own email, not sure if that will be easier or harder, thoughts?) and feel free to post rewards or punishments in the comments if we did very well or very badly. (I don't remember if we set up consistent rules for these, may need to double check that).

We will be jumping right back into dares, want to keep the momentum going. We still have the old dares I think, but they probably need to be sorted through and remembered so they may not be on the top of the list yet, but we will get to them, promise. In the mean time, feel free to send new dares.

We'll try to do one this weekend, maybe an old one, maybe a new one if someone sends one in soon enough. We've also got Halloween coming up, so opportunities there for dares. We're also trying to think of a sort of "apology" dare we can do for disappearing, but we don't have any ideas yet. Maybe another voting dare or something? If you have ideas on that too, let us know.

Yay!

PS: I can't seem to get the meebo thing to work. Not sure why, but I don't show up as online.

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

forgive me?

So I had some personal crap going on, and then I got distracted and kept putting off the blog, then I didn't have the motivation to come back, and then summer hit and whatever, I'm a horrible blogger.

So... I'm back in school now, I finally got up the courage to come back and face my humiliating "sorry I disappeared" moment. Becky and I have been talking about starting this back up...

If anyone still reads this, forgive me?